It Hurt's...

It Hurt's...

It hurts when someone ignores you, it hurts more when a heart is broken.  It hurts when someone blames you for something you hadn't done; it hurts when people talk on you back; it hurts when people make fun of you and it hurts when you are not treated well.

I'm sure everyone of us would have been hurt in this life for some or the other reason., but did we ever realize that we may be hurting the other person, did we stop and think for a minute that we may be a reason for someone who's hurt, that someone is hurt because of something bad that we have said or mistreated or made fun of something which is valuable to them.

Well, i don't know. I have never thought of it now and i have been realizing these days.  Yeah, it's true what ever you are thinking. " I have been Hurt". But, more than that i have realized how bad i have hurt others and i do not know how can i ever heal those gashed that i made.  It's true that we learn or realize only after getting up after falling down, with the exceptions of those who live no regrets for their misdeeds.

I always believed that most of us do not want to hurt anyone deliberately and i believe that i haven't hurt people intentionally.  Life can be so hard sometimes that we stop using our inner mind and become the puppets of our own odd feelings and we end up hurting other people and of course hurting ourselves.  But, all i think important is how quick we realize our mistake and ask for forgiveness.

We can think... differentiate good & bad... have feelings... can love and want to be loved... and so does every human being.  However, we always get side tracked by anger, jealousy, etc; and we do not realize that we are hurting others feelings.  A split of a clock's tick ...the damage is done and i'm sure that we can't help it always, but the question is ...do you have the guts to accept your mistake and convey that you are truly sorry?

I'm going to gather all my guts and say sorry for that one person i know that i have hurt so badly. 

What About You ???